"When you're in the hospital, suddenly, all loves you", Dr. House

It' s so strange to think (I haven't experienced it, happily), that when people get into the hospital, suddenly, all people they know, rush there to ask, how are they or maybe they need sth or they have sth to bring to them etc. But why only then? Why can't they show their love (?) when people are okay? Maybe, because there is no love?

You know, people are so fake. I guess, they want to show they care or just gasconade in public. Like: "Look at me, I'm so caring relative." And as suddenly as they rushed into the hospital, they are going away as soon as people get better. Was it caring? It's like all these catastrophes that happen in the world (September, 11th 2001 or that shooting in Oslo). At first, let's say two weeks-month, every single newspaper blazon forth about it, but as time passes, everybody start to forget about it. At least, the ones who aren't connected with it. Yes, there are such things as anniversaries, when the world remembers it again, but then it goes. And nobody cares, what happened to the people, how they feel. Nobody cares about their pain.

Funeral is like being in a hospital. The only difference is you can't save a person anymore...

It's like, you know, there's just a bunch of people you haven't seen for ages and they appear there, with same questions as in the hospital . "Can I help you?", "I'm so sorry.", "Maybe there's sth I can do for you?" and so on. Like you care. I mean, yes, you may care, but .. your close friend/family member/boy- or girlfriend died. And they are asking if they can help you. They fucking can't bring him/her back. However, these words may make sense, 'cause sometimes we all need words of support. But. Why now? I mean, when a person is already gone. Like .. have they ever called when he/she was alive? Maybe, once/twice a year to say "Happy birthday!" or wish happy new year/merry Christmas (still meaningless words, said only because so it is). That's all. Nobody cared, when you were alive.

My point is, why the most care only when sth happens? Can't you just take a phone the other day (or why not now?), call someone you haven't talked to for a long time and just ask, how are you? And the most important part - really mean it.

You know, it may make lots of sense. It can be the last time you talked to a person you actually care(d) about. So, you don't have to regret it later. That you even couldn't talk to him/her for the last time, I mean.

So, come on, people. You should care sometimes. Not only be about yourself. You are not the only one on the planet. There are people around you. And... maybe the ones who you care about. Or. They care about you. You really should pay some attention.